How Divorce Affects Your Mortgage
- Lucy Baldwin

- Nov 3
- 3 min read
Updated: Nov 10
Separation or divorce can complicate your finances, especially when a mortgage is involved. Many couples face difficult decisions about what happens to their family home, which is often their largest shared asset. Understanding your options during this challenging time is crucial to protecting your credit score, avoiding mortgage default, and securing your financial future.
Divorce and Joint Mortgages
When a couple shares a mortgage, both parties are usually jointly liable for monthly repayments. Even if one partner moves out, their name on the mortgage means they are legally responsible for the full balance.
Failing to keep up with payments during a separation is considered mortgage default, which can lead to:
Late fees and penalties
Damage to credit scores
Repossession of the property if arrears are not cleared
Common reasons for mortgage default during divorce include:
One partner refusing or unable to pay their share
Confusion about responsibility after moving out
Delays in financial settlements or selling the home
What to Do if Your Ex Stops Paying Their Share
If your ex-partner stops contributing to the mortgage, you remain legally liable unless the mortgage is refinanced or a transfer of equity occurs. Options include:
Contact Your Lender EarlyMost lenders are more supportive when informed promptly. Temporary solutions may include:
Payment holidays
Interest-only payments
Extended mortgage term
Understand Your Legal RightsIf you continue paying your ex’s share, legal routes such as court orders (e.g., Mesher or Martin Orders) may allow you to reclaim the unpaid portion.
Remortgage in Your Name OnlyIf you can afford repayments alone, you may refinance to remove your ex-partner from the mortgage. Lenders will assess your income, credit history, and affordability.
Sell the PropertyIf neither party can manage the mortgage alone, selling may be the most practical option. In negative equity situations, speak with your lender about covering the shortfall.
Transfer of EquityA transfer of equity removes one person from both the mortgage and legal ownership. Lender approval and legal guidance are required, and stamp duty may apply.
Mediation or Court OrdersIf your ex-partner does not cooperate, family mediation or court intervention can help determine fair division of property and mortgage responsibilities.
Can I Stop Paying My Mortgage During Divorce?
Stopping payments is strongly discouraged unless agreed with your lender. Defaulting can remain on your credit file for six years, affecting your ability to remortgage or take out loans.
Temporary solutions, such as interest-only payments or extending the mortgage term, may help reduce financial pressure during separation.
Who Can Stay in the House?
Deciding who remains in the property depends on:
Ownership structure
Presence of children
Financial positions of each partner
Courts aim for a fair outcome rather than an automatic 50/50 split, considering factors such as:
Child welfare
Income, financial needs, and housing requirements
Length of the marriage
Contributions to the home and family
Removing Your Ex from the Mortgage
Removing your ex-partner requires a transfer of equity and lender approval. Steps include:
Applying for a mortgage in your sole name
Affordability and credit checks
Legal fees for updating ownership
Buying Out Your Partner
You can buy your ex-partner’s share of the property during or after separation. This usually involves:
Property valuation
Legal agreement
Mortgage lender approval for repayments in your name only
Handling Negative Equity
Negative equity occurs when your mortgage balance exceeds the property’s market value. Options include:
Selling the property and covering the shortfall
Refinancing to transfer the mortgage into one name (often challenging with no equity)
Getting Expert Help
Navigating mortgage issues during divorce can be stressful. Mortgage brokers specialising in divorce, like Major Financial Services, can guide you through refinancing, buying out your ex, or exploring specialist lender options.
Resources and Support in the UK:
Citizens Advice – Free advice on housing and legal rights
MoneyHelper – Guidance on finances during divorce
Shelter – Advice for at-risk homeowners
Resolution – Family law professionals
If you’re facing mortgage challenges during a separation or want to explore your options, contact our expert mortgage advisors today.https://www.major-financial.co.uk/contact




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